{"id":321,"date":"2005-04-10T22:45:00","date_gmt":"2005-04-11T02:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sugargroup.net\/varrin\/he-turned-around-to-me-and-said\/"},"modified":"2005-04-10T22:45:00","modified_gmt":"2005-04-11T02:45:00","slug":"he-turned-around-to-me-and-said","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sugargroup.net\/varrin\/he-turned-around-to-me-and-said\/","title":{"rendered":"He turned around to me and said&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Note:  This is a little long but features the many sides of Varrin&#8230;  Enjoy it \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t recall exactly the last time I actually sat down at a set of drums and played but it&#8217;s been months&#8230; many months.  I don&#8217;t like to go that long without playing.  It&#8217;s not so much that I lose my touch (though I can certainly feel the struggling chops), but I just enjoy it so much I can&#8217;t stand not doing it.  <\/p>\n<p>A month ago or so, I went to the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.rynborn.com\/\">Rynborn Restaurant and Blues Club<\/a> right here in Keene (one more reason to move here) on a Sunday night because I had heard they have live jazz there.  I thought I saw something indicating it was a jam session but I wasn&#8217;t really sure.  It wasn&#8217;t that well attended but I enjoyed the music and a nice dinner (solo).  During one of the breaks, I introduced myself to the band and mentioned that I played.  That didn&#8217;t result in an enthusiastic invitation to play and I was content just to listen that evening.<\/p>\n<p>Tonight was date night and the food at the Rynborn is yummy, so I decided to take Edi there.  We used to go listen to live jazz a lot and I thought it&#8217;d be fun to show her the &#8216;spot&#8217; I found.  The drummer was the same but the rest of the band was different.  It was nice to listen to them.  <\/p>\n<p>This time, the attendance was a little better, but still not spectacular.  When they started, they specifically mentioned that they would have some &#8216;special guest&#8217; musicians.  One of them was a flugelhorn player who I very much enjoyed listening to.  During one of the breaks, I asked the guitar player if they ever have any drummers sit in.  His response was hesitant but positive.  So I waltzed over to the drummer who I had met previously.  He seemed to remember me and agreed to let me sit in for a tune or two.  He did become noticeably nervous when I told him it had been months since I had played, though.  I figured that was okay.  If I stunk, he was warned.  If I hit a homer, we&#8217;d all be happy.<\/p>\n<p>So when the appointed time came, they called me up to play.  As I walked on stage, I introduced myself to the rest of the band.  The drummer asked me &#8220;is that with an F or a V&#8221;.  I gave him the &#8220;V&#8221; sign.  Then the guitar player asked me what my last name was.  I told him.  What followed was one of those &#8216;woah that&#8217;s weird&#8217; moments&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>After saying my last name, he scribbled on his paper, turned around and spelled it out &#8220;S W E A R I N G E N, right?&#8221;  &#8220;Yes,&#8221; I replied.  Half smiling he asked, &#8220;So how&#8217;s the Free State Project going?&#8221;  <\/p>\n<p>At that point, I wasn&#8217;t quite sure what to say&#8230;  &#8220;Fine&#8230; how&#8217;d you know&#8230;.&#8221;  He replied, &#8220;I stop by the website from time to time.&#8221;  At that point, I didn&#8217;t really care what his impression of the Free State Project was.  I was blown away that the project left that much of an impression on him and that he somehow associated my name with it so quickly.  I told him I&#8217;d love to talk to him about it afterwords.<\/p>\n<p>So having reminded everyone that I hand&#8217;t played in a while, they were all visibly nervous, surely having played far too many sit-in gigs with people who think they can play but really can&#8217;t.  When he asked what I wanted to play, I said I didn&#8217;t really care.  Swing?  Sure.  Au Privave?  Four?  Oh.. speaking of numbers, how about Take Five.  That raised an eyebrow.  Now they were really wondering&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>So we kicked the tune off.  Fortunately, a lifetime of playing didn&#8217;t let me down.  Within a few bars, everyone suddenly appeared much more relaxed.  I couldn&#8217;t say it was the best I&#8217;ve ever played, but it was just peachy under the circumstances (better than I expected even).  Apparently they were happy enough they asked me to stay for a second tune.  I was more than happy to oblige.  <\/p>\n<p>As the drummer returned to the stage, he said &#8220;you said you hadn&#8217;t played in a while??&#8221;  &#8220;Yeah,&#8221; I replied.  &#8220;What happened, did someone threaten you or something?&#8221;  Laughing, I said, &#8220;No, I moved.  I just haven&#8217;t gotten back to playing again since I got here.&#8221;  He mumbled something about wondering how I&#8217;d do if I practiced.<\/p>\n<p>We enjoyed the rest of the music.  After they were all done, I struck up some conversation with both the drummer and the guitar player.  A whole host of topics ensued in rapid succession.  We covered the move, the Free State Project, everyone&#8217;s careers, where we all lived, our musical backgrounds, and several political topics including gun rights and education.  It turns out the guitar player (who isn&#8217;t even from Keene, BTW) was a big pro-2nd Amendment guy (familiar with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gonh.org\/\">GO-NH<\/a>, etc.) and had even heard of HB406 (a homeschool deregulation bill), written by our good friend Dawn Lincoln.  He had homeschooled in NH for a while.  \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>All I can say is&#8230; what a small world we live in.  Needless to say, I&#8217;ll be back to the Rynborn to play again.  The drummer invited me to bring my Congas next time (after he heard that I played those, too).  If anyone wants to know when I&#8217;ll be there (ya know, come support jazz at the Rynborn), let me know&#8230; \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>V-<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Note: This is a little long but features the many sides of Varrin&#8230; Enjoy it \ud83d\ude09 I don&#8217;t recall exactly the last time I actually sat down at a set of drums and played but it&#8217;s been months&#8230; many months. 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